Hello! i'm Emily - most people call me Em. Only my brothers (and nicole, maya and amanda) can call me Emmy (hence, Emygirl)
Hunter - maya calls me Emily Winchester.
Knight of Camelot.
Shield-maiden of Rohan
incredibly frustrated journalism major
my best friend is half a world away
currently missing my better half.
I'm a dedicated supernatural kid.
talk to me!!
Get through tomorrow and get back home. That’s the motto. I don’t want this. Kill me now.
Be kind to yourself. Stop telling yourself that whatever you are struggling with “should” be easy. If something is hard for you, it is hard for you. There are probably Reasons, though those may just be how you are wired. Acknowledge these things. When you finish something hard, be proud! Celebrate a little.
And really, just stop saying “should” to yourself about your thoughts and feelings in any context. You feel how you feel. The things in your head are the things in your head. You can’t change either directly through sheer force of will. You can only change what you do. Stop beating yourself up for who and what you are right now–it isn’t productive. Focus on moving forward.